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In anthropological terms, the one thing that separates us from the great x rated movie (visit this website link) apes is privacy. Sex in public in human societies is so socially transgressive that it is illegal.

Fortunately, technology means we do not need to gawp at others doing it to discover ways to do it. We learn most things by watching them happen, through being shown first hand, or through description.

For example, a female gorilla born in captivity in Ohio State Zoo had to be shown videos of gorillas nursing within the wild to learn how to suckle her young; and also a common complaint of new mothers today is that breastfeeding is just not instinctual, possibly because the sight of breastfeeding is so rare. As a physical act, sex is no different.

Pornography is a safe way of learning about one of the most significant things about life.

Sex manuals have been produced for millennia, most famously the Kama Sutra, which does focus on sexual positions, however the majority of the book in fact explains a philosophy of love, desire and has advice about bedroom etiquette (ensure she comes first and try not focusing just on your own pleasure).

Shunga-Shunga:

Erotic and comedic prints called "Shunga" (which translates as "spring pictures", a euphemism for sex) became popular in Japan throughout the 18th and 19th centuries. In those times, strict confuscian laws controlled public life, but private life remained uncensored and that allowed a national network of lending libraries - often distributing Shunga - to flourish. These paintings were often given as a wedding present, and some were very explicit: if you weren't sure what went where when it came to sex, these images would sort you out. They later became extremely popular in Europe and also the US throughout the 20th and 21st centuries, just because they became taboo in Japan.

As we've seen, pornography can clearly be put to good use by educating men and women about sex. If only we could decide just how to do this effectively. Perhaps we need a mass debate?